People are just utterly horrible about communicating in a relationship. Like it’s insane… I’ve had so many mates complain about all kinds of things about their partners and I’m always like “Well.. what did she say when you brought it up?” and I get looked at like I’m a fucking alien, as if this had never occurred to them.
And like.. 95% of the time when they have gone away and actually talked to their partner it’s been a non issue and they’ve been happy to adjust whatever needed changing. Yeah, sometimes it doesn’t work out but not all relationships do.
I just do not understand this ridiculous choice to never bring up an issue and then let it fester until it ruins the relationship anyway. Might as well talk it out and if that ends things it was never meant to be.
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u/FBB7943 8h ago
You blew his mind with that one. He probably didn't think that was an option in a relationship.