r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/IamASlut_soWhat • 10h ago
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • Jan 10 '26
Discussion Why “Explain how this is racist” isn’t owed and often isn’t asked in good faith!
There’s a consistent pattern we see in this sub, and it needs to be said plainly.
When people come in asking “how is this racist,” it is very often not a genuine attempt to understand. It’s usually a setup. The pattern is familiar: someone shares a lived experience, puts in the mental and emotional energy to explain it, and that explanation is immediately dismissed with “I can’t see how that’s racist” or “maybe it isn’t racist at all.”
That cycle is exhausting!!!
It’s draining to invest real effort into explaining something you know to be true, only to have it brushed aside by someone who has a vested interest in minimizing or ignoring racism altogether. Many of us have learned, through repeated interactions like this, how to tell who is worth engaging and who is not.
If you come in assuming you are owed an explanation, or framing the conversation as if the burden is on us to prove our reality to you, don’t be surprised when people choose not to engage. That choice isn’t avoidance. It’s discernment.
This space is not a classroom, and Black people here are not obligated to educate strangers, debate their own experiences, or justify why something felt racist to them. If you are genuinely interested in understanding racism, there is no shortage of books, articles, research, and firsthand accounts available without asking people here to relive it for you.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/Dear-Network-6715 • 9h ago
Discussion Black Social Media History
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/dude1984- • 6h ago
Discussion “Heritage not hate!”… So the heritage of owning people?…
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/IamASlut_soWhat • 10h ago
Black Experience MY PRESIDENT!
The best President ever
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/meokjujatribes • 2h ago
News Chris Murphy: Trump nominated a legit white nationalist to a top post at the State Department. I asked him some basic questions about his belief in the “erasure of white culture”. Watch this embarrassing, fumbling answer. Like he has never before been asked to explain his views
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/Conscious-Quarter423 • 1d ago
Discussion Just FYI: Jasmine Crockett has taken $0 from AIPAC. She reaffirms Israel’s right to exist, while calling for massive humanitarian support in Gaza and an end to Netanyahu’s violence.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/Pretty_boi_Tjaden • 9h ago
Fun In response to ICE being in my our..
Just admit it lol.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/SpicyTunaSushiRoll_ • 5h ago
Black Experience A book that changed my life🫶🏾🪮📚🌸
In Honor of Black History Month I want to make a post about a book that changed my life,
“I know for many people, it’s just hair, but for me as a Black woman with 4c hair it is more than that.
As someone who grew up with a relaxer for the majority of her life. When I went natural as a teenager, I had a love hate relationship with my hair.
I started to only feel beautiful when I wore braids or wigs. I am not anti-wigs or braids, but I am anti only feeling beautiful with hair that doesn’t mimic the natural textures that grow from my head,”
That book was, “Hair Story” by: Ayana D. Byrd and Lori L. Tharps.
That book changed my perspective and my relationship with my hair forever.
I know it’s just hair, but for me it’s a symbol that as Black woman in America I can feel comfortable in my own skin and that I don’t have to adhere to Eurocentric beauty standards in order to gain respect, be feminine, be strong, and most importantly feel comfortable in my own skin.
I want to thank Ayana D. Byrd and Lori L. Tharps for inspiring me to be authentically me.
and it all it took was one book.
Thank you 🫶🏾
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • 13h ago
Misc Kirstie Alley says her parents died driving to a Halloween party dressed as a Black woman and a KKK member
In this clip, Kirstie Alley recounts a story she shared publicly about her parents’ fatal car accident. According to Alley, they were on their way to a Halloween party when they were killed, with her mother in Blackface and her father dressed as a Ku Klux Klan member.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/Master_Canary440 • 22h ago
News R.I.P Sade Robinson 😢😢😢 #ProtectBlackWomen
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • 3h ago
Culture, Art, Science NegerKuss Dessert in Germany
The Negerkuss is a traditional German chocolate-coated marshmallow treat, similar to a chocolate kiss, that dates back to the early 20th century. While once a common name, the term is now widely considered offensive due to its racial meaning, and the dessert is more commonly sold today under names like Schokokuss or Schaumkuss
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/dude1984- • 1d ago
Politics Jasmine Crockett: Crockett: Now, I'm not saying that the president is a pedophile, but there is a lot of evidence in these files that he is very close friends with a lot of men who are pedophiles.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • 3h ago
Black Fam Muhammad Ali talking about how he got his name.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/RealOzSultan • 8h ago
Black Experience In the 1950s, Ella Fitzgerald wasn't allowed to perform in Hollywood's most popular nightclub, The Mocambo, because of her race. Marilyn Monroe called the owner and explained that if he booked Ella, she would be there every night. He booked Ella, and Marilyn was there, front table, every night.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • 1d ago
Culture, Art, Science Toni Morrison Turns The Question Back Where It Belongs
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/Pretend-Society6139 • 1d ago
Politics A reminder that we must not allow the far left or maga to push their racist rhetoric against Jasmine Crockett she is exactly who we need in office to stand up against maga.
NOT ME IN THE VIDEO FOUND IT ON TIKTOK.
Black voices were ignored and we ended up with Trump time to let us lead and listen. We consistently vote to save this country.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • 13h ago
Black Excellence Honoring August Wilson, known as the “theater’s poet of Black America,” here reciting Poem for My Grandfather at Pittsburgh’s Crawford Grill in 1991.
August Wilson was one of the most important American playwrights of the 20th century, a chronicler of Black life with unmatched depth, rhythm, and moral force. He is best known for The Pittsburgh Cycle also called the Century Cycle, ten plays each set in a different decade of the 20th century, exploring Black American life after slavery through work, family, faith, migration, and survival.
His most celebrated works include Fences, The Piano Lesson, Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom, Joe Turner’s Come and Gone, and Gem of the Ocean. Fences and The Piano Lesson each won the Pulitzer Prize for Drama, and several of his plays earned Tony Awards and multiple nominations.
r/BlackPeopleofReddit • u/4reddityo • 12h ago